Sex & Pancakes

Sending in a question? Please read this!

Hey Sex & Pancakes readers!

I’m really excited to have this new blog for many reasons, but mostly because it gives you all the chance to send me questions anonymously!
The thing that I don’t love though - unlike with Facebook’s honesty box, I can’t respond to you if something in your question was unclear. 

So please try to give me as much info as possible when sending your questions. Feel free to even add it under the question you send!

Examples:

“My boyfriend”
“My girlfriend” 
“I’ve been having trouble getting aroused” 
“it hurts when I have sex” 

• when relevant - are you male, female, gender non-conforming? What about your partner?

“we had sex”

• anal sex, oral sex, penile-vaginal, unicorning? Sex can be different things to different people.

“I have cervical cancer”
“I have an anxiety disorder and sex hurts me”

• Include any condition you have that’s relevant to your problem, or anything that could be related.

Thanks for all the questions so far, I love hearing from you and feel free to leave feedback in the ask section if you love or hate my column!